Struggling

I am really struggling here and I don't know where I went wrong! I have really tried to be consistent, have routines, have follow through, be creative in consequences, and ultimately loving but somewhere something has failed! I feel like all I do is referee a fight, deal with tattling, give time out, say the say thing over and over and over again. It is always something, it is always something, and it is never small! I fall asleep almost every night utterly exhausted and reeling from the day. Constant talk back, bad attitudes, defiance, disobedience, and lying is finally taking it's toll on me. I am at the end of my rope and I don't know where to turn!! I have tried to have a loving christian home with morals, good examples, and plenty of re-dos. I need the Lord to show me what I am doing wrong and where I need more of his guidance.
Thanks for listening, just a random vent I guess.

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